Posts Tagged ‘Family’

Elijah | Family Photography | Lifetstyles Photographer

December 10th, 2009

Nothing makes me swoon quite like watching a newborn baby as they begin to recognize their world, their family and begin communicating with us in pure and simple ways we always seem to understand. Elijah is Baby #5 to this family and I don’t know how they do it. Not only do they do it, but they do it with grace and good humor. They actually make it look easy.

I have an entire blog post to share with you all from this session, but since I’ve been very behind here with blogging sessions, I’m just sharing this image as a sneak peek.

Don’t ya just love the way babies smell? (swoon….) I just love his cute little fingers and toes (with fuzzy attached).

Elijah

A Soldier Comes Home | OpLove | Lifestyles Photographer

November 3rd, 2009

One of my favorite jobs to do is covering a soldier’s homecoming.

I’ve known this family for about a year now through the Operation Love Reunited organization; A volunteer organization of professional photographers giving their time to families of deployed soldiers. When I got the call that he was coming home, I knew that an end to a very long year for this family was finally coming to an end. The days turn to weeks and then into months and the oldest of the two boys seemed to be carrying the weight of that time away. Like his mom, he worried and as the day wore on, the happy facade began to wane to anxiety. He paced, needing his space and watching carefully in the direction he heard the soldiers might be coming. The time seemed endless to everyone, but to him, each time he heard “it’ll be soon” or “Daddy’s on his way” was becoming more and more worrying. The hours stretched out as the crowds were trying to be patient. The youngest felt the tension too.

As I looked about the crowd I realized that many of these very young children will be meeting their father for the first time. I saw mothers and fathers and brothers, uncles, sisters, and cousins. Every single one of those people have sacrificed a little bit of themselves when their soldier left. They stayed behind. They held up the fort. They carried on with the life these soldiers could come home to. In those hours they were all brought together for one reason; To set their eyes on their soldier. To know she was home safe.

This homecoming was the end of many soldier’s commitment to the Military. Some will go back. No one thought about that that day. No one complained about waiting in the heat. None of that mattered, as long as they could hold their soldier in their arms once again.

The wait was hard but we were reminded that war is harder and that some did not come home that day. “We find a way to be grateful that it was not one of our own,” I heard one woman say to another.

To all the families and soldiers who served with dignity, I salute you. To this beautiful family, thank you for letting me be a part of your story this past year. I am deeply touched by you all and feel blessed for knowing you.

oplove-soldier-returns-1
oplove-soldier-returns-2
SDP-37
oplove-soldier-returns-4
oplove-soldier-returns-5
oplove-soldier-returns-6
SDP-103
oplove-soldier-returns-7
oplove-soldier-returns-8
SDP-174
_SDP9781-Edit-2

Welcome home, Soldier!

Shari DeAngelo Photography | Philadelphia Wedding  Photographer & Lifestyles Photography | Fine Art, Fashion, Lifestyles and Wedding Photographer located in Haddonfield, NJ and Philadelphia PA. Local and Destination services available.

Photographs, Memories and Missing You: A Military Family Story

November 18th, 2008

“Saying Goodbye….
Being apart….
It’s hard.”

About a year ago I volunteered to be a part of Operation: Love Reunited. Photographers from all over the country participate by offering services to families of deployed or deploying soldiers. It’s our little way of making the years and the miles just a little closer together.

Last weekend I met a family who made me both cry a little and laugh a lot. I cannot begin to tell you how touched I am by their story or by how they allowed me to be a part of it for a day.

A soldier, a husband and father of 4 said “goodbye” again last summer to his family as he went back to Iraq to serve for the NJ National Guard for another tour. He won’t see them until next summer. “Maybe June.” The oldest daughter is 21 and she’ll be shipping out to yet another war zone, herself, very soon. This is a tender time in this family’s life: A balancing act of humor, honor, good will and courage. They do it with such grace but they do not hide themselves behind pretense. This is tough times and they’ve each learned to get through it together.

The images are a selection from our session together. I feel truly blessed for getting to know them.

My favorite part will be when they come home though.

What I did on My Summer Vacation

August 30th, 2008

As we typically do, we load the dogs and lad into the car and head to my in-laws house on Topsail Island, NC every summer for 1-2 weeks. There we join up with 26 or so of our other relatives and enjoy the sun, surf, sand and…well poker, beer, inside jokes and you know… typical family fun. Their house is a 12 bedroom house right on the beach and frankly our dogs wish we’d just live there every day. They love to body surf and enjoy long walks on the beach…

Happiness is a Beach House and Balls

Miles swam in the ocean for hours and hours. He chased and retrieved every ball and proudly returned each one to our feet to do it “again.”

When we go to the beach every year, it’s pure heaven to our dogs. Surf, sand and balls (Frisbees are our other dog’s favorite). Is there anything better?

On our way back home though (a 9 hour drive extended to 11) this time, we had a terrible scare. Miles had been panting a lot (but that’s normal for him) and he seemed truly exhausted when we left the beach house that morning. We figured he’d sleep the whole way home. We discounted the excessive drooling, which we later regretted.

About 4-5 hours into our drive Miles started to have seizures in the back of our SUV and we were in the middle of traffic on I95. Because we have a dog grate up, we couldn’t reach him. I’ve only heard my son panicked 2 times in his life. This was one. Helpless, all he could do was watch him until we could get our way off the road.

By the time we could safely pull off, the seizure had subsided but every muscle was tense, his eyes were round and he was shaking. His gums showed no sign of shock but his pupils were fixed and dilated. He was very hot. The poor dog (and us) were absolutely terrified. Because we had no idea what had caused it, we weren’t sure what to do but to hold him and make him less scared. It worked.

We stayed there for awhile. He was able to get up and drink and eventually took a walk. He was coming out of it. Whatever it was. We were cautiously optimistic. He’d had a rough first 4 years of his life and we had no idea (for certain) what we were dealing with now.

To say the rest of the drive home was stressful would probably be an understatement.

Everyone made it home safely and Miles has recovered fully. We believe he had a heat stroke. If there’s any permanent damage, we haven’t discovered it yet. All his behavior seems to fall under his “normal Miles-isims.”

Even with this experience, I’m pretty sure Miles would jump right back in the car to get back to this spot.

Click to continue reading “What I did on My Summer Vacation”

©2008-2010 Shari DeAngelo Photography, LLC. Lifestyles and Wedding Photographer located in Haddonfield, NJ and Philadelphia, PA